I know, I know I don't do this stuff very often, I just feel like I need some help here.... so here it goes. But before I say anything, just know that Seth is the ONLY person, who is like my best friend who is always at school with me and stuff, that knows this infromation..... so there's some trust here even for the new ones, anyways. I got this crush on this 8th grader (A year above me) We did Cross Country together, and we ended up dating and we still are.... but he is VERY flirtatious and touchy (But not in a bad way, more of like he is alway very close with his friends and is flirting with any of his friends that are girls.) Anyways, Seth doesn't want me to obsess over him and honestly I don't either.... he keeps on flirting with other girls and like not behind my back either like RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY FACE, and like he only really has two excuses for it, but because we are in separate grade levels and Cross Country just ended, and I got my phone taken away for grades I haven't really had the time to talk to him about it, and it either gets me super angry or makes me want to cry, because we have only been in this relationship for a few weeks and he's already acting like this. I mean he's super sweet and listens very well, but he's ALWAYS FLIRTING with other girls, and I just don't know what to do!! Can I get some help pls??
-Yours truly~ Echolake
Sorry this is very confusing, I sorta jammed it all in here because I don't know what to do, like this is my first ever serious relationship, and it's like this, I just don't know what to do about it....
I don't really know what to say (I can't date for another two years)
But, I don't really know XP, sorry this wasn't helpful.
It's alright, I didn't really expect everyone or even really anyone to be able to help, it just feels better knowing that I will have some people to vent to if I find him cheating on me or something!
Aw, that sucks. Boys can sometimes be really annoying. I don't really know how to help, but...... if he keeps doing that, does he also....flirt with you too? If not, maybe he's not the right guy. Sorry, that probably doesn't help.
Oh no, he most definitely flirts with me too, it just annoys me that he flirts with other girls right in front of my face, and even like Seth from time to time when I'm not around, cause as I said I have my phone taken away and they both live in town so seeing each other can sometimes be a sorta hard thing to not do.... but I think that he thinks that I won't find out if he's flirting with my best friend who KNOWS about our relationship, and was there when HE asked me out...... I sorta feel like he wanted me as a prize and then as soon as he got me, he thinks that I won't just leave him even if he's flirting right in front of me.
I say....talk with him when you get the chance. Let him know it hurts you that he does this.
communication is key to a healthy relationship, as well as trust. I suggest you talk to him about the issue. if he's gonna play you, he isn't worth your time. I know it's easier said than done, but trust me.
Yeah I agree you should tell him how you feel if he is a good guy he will understand sorry if this does not help
I'm sorry I don't know how to help you.
It's all good!! :3 Also thanks to the rest of you who helped!! We have a school band concert on the 24th and I'm going to be there, so I'm gonna have him come so I can talk to him about it.
Awww man Echo! Tbh, I think it’s pretty legit that you have a bf that’s a boy. I got PLENTY of friends that are boys but they just tend to stick together all the time and I (being a girl) am left with dah females to sit out and watch the guys do something fun like play a sport that I wanna join but it always gets... awkward. I think it’s just SOOOOO COOL that u have a dude friend that knows that ur his gal friend too! About the other flirt with other gals part I’m not all that sure....
But I would say that be the most, loving, patient, kind, caring friend he has! Be there for him! 😊
Yeah! I've got some guys that are my friends......but it gets awkward, especially when one of them hangs out with us, especially the guys that have crushes on my friends.
XD You guys have problems with guy friends?? The friends that I have that are guys tend to be pretty stupid and funny and they are friends with my entire friend group so we tend to be pretty chill about them hanging around with us!! XD Though my bf isn't in my friend group, heck he isn't even in my grade! So having him hang out with us would probably be a little strange, especially since like none of my friends except Seth knows that we are a couple. XD