My old friend ***** keeps hanging up on me and she's just not her and I'm figuring out what to do rn. I need a place where I can talk to ppl and vent about my life rn. I'm just so stressed about everything. Yeah..
oof, I'm sorry you're going through all that. Friend stuff can be complicated, especially when you're a teen/preteen. Some people want to do mature stuff like wear makeup, some don't. Try to keep in mind that people change and that she's still the same friend you first made, and maybe remind her of that too. (I'm totally winging it here fyi.)
AS for being stressed, try to figure out what's stressing you out, maybe talk to someone about it (says the girl who talks to literally no one about anything that's remotely serious or troubling her....) if you're comfortable doing that, and if you start to feel more stressed than normal, maybe hang out with your dog for a bit, I've found that dogs always help relieve my stress, even for a short amount of time.
I am so sorry that this has happened to you, the pulling away of a friend hurts. I went through it with a really close friend when she started becoming someone I didn't want to be. I made the choice to let her go even though it hurt, and it was better after that. We were still friendly, but the she ended moving away. (Come to think of it, all of my friends have either moved away, or we moved away. I have never really had a friend for more then a couple years tops.)
My mom has always said that you become who you surround yourself with. This is something I have lived by because I don't want to become someone besides who I am.
As for your brothers. Your brother going into the Marines is going to do wonderful. I have a sister who will begin stepping into the land of adulting, and I am not ready for it, But I believe that your brother will do amazing. I will be praying for him and I know a girl who recently went to boot camp and I have a family member in the military(Not sure which branch)
Don't let a potential bully worry you. i had to deal with bullies for my younger siblings and it is a job they may never know you took for them. Is this boy older then you? If so, maybe tell you youth pastor or another adult.
(If you have any questions, I can answer them in the morning.)
I’m so sorry to hear that.... All I can suggest is that like thunder said ask here why! I she doesn’t respond idk... All I know is your amazing and if she won’t lesten than she doesn’t deserve you. Sorry if this doesn’t help...
Thanks. I rlly needed to hear that. I feel like crying in my bed I'm so stressed out with my brother going into the Marines, my little brother going into youth with me and getting bullied by this stupid boy (He hasn't been bullied yet but...) I'm sick and feel like vomiting, ETC. My life is so stressful rn so I feel like crying. The only person who is making life bearable for me rn is my dog Tucker
well if she doesn't want to talk to you then she dose not deserve you sunlight.
Oop. Have to go to bed. Night!
oof, I'm sorry you're going through all that. Friend stuff can be complicated, especially when you're a teen/preteen. Some people want to do mature stuff like wear makeup, some don't. Try to keep in mind that people change and that she's still the same friend you first made, and maybe remind her of that too. (I'm totally winging it here fyi.)
AS for being stressed, try to figure out what's stressing you out, maybe talk to someone about it (says the girl who talks to literally no one about anything that's remotely serious or troubling her....) if you're comfortable doing that, and if you start to feel more stressed than normal, maybe hang out with your dog for a bit, I've found that dogs always help relieve my stress, even for a short amount of time.
I am so sorry that this has happened to you, the pulling away of a friend hurts. I went through it with a really close friend when she started becoming someone I didn't want to be. I made the choice to let her go even though it hurt, and it was better after that. We were still friendly, but the she ended moving away. (Come to think of it, all of my friends have either moved away, or we moved away. I have never really had a friend for more then a couple years tops.)
My mom has always said that you become who you surround yourself with. This is something I have lived by because I don't want to become someone besides who I am.
As for your brothers. Your brother going into the Marines is going to do wonderful. I have a sister who will begin stepping into the land of adulting, and I am not ready for it, But I believe that your brother will do amazing. I will be praying for him and I know a girl who recently went to boot camp and I have a family member in the military(Not sure which branch)
Don't let a potential bully worry you. i had to deal with bullies for my younger siblings and it is a job they may never know you took for them. Is this boy older then you? If so, maybe tell you youth pastor or another adult.
(If you have any questions, I can answer them in the morning.)
I’m so sorry to hear that.... All I can suggest is that like thunder said ask here why! I she doesn’t respond idk... All I know is your amazing and if she won’t lesten than she doesn’t deserve you. Sorry if this doesn’t help...
I cant stay on long, but, maybe ask her what's going on. Remind her that you are friends and friends are there for each other. Maybe that will help?